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"THE ONE" PART 2

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Tamara reluctantly looked over her shoulders to the phone on her bed. She knew that both of them might have called or left messages. It is a good thing none of them knew where she lived. This time around she took an off app cab outside the club so there was no way Hans would trace her and neither would Zack. She looked back blankly out of the misty window. She was hesitant about picking the phone let alone turning it on. She wasn’t sure what she would find. Both men had a right to be mad, they probably had talked when she left them and discovered she was seeing them both at the same time.  The ding-dong from the door-bell startled her. She tightened her bathrobes straps.  Zack paced up and down the living room. He almost felt every fiber of the bohemian rug beneath his bare feet. He subconsciously tapped the rim of his whiskey half-glass. She still hadn’t switched her phone on. He has no way finding her if not through the phone. He paced over to the decanter and refilled the g...

DEAR NEWLY WEDDED WIFE....

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At the age of 24yrs, I said yes to the love of my life. Our wedding happened not long after I said yes. The wedding was a testimony and God was very involved in it. We both had just completed our theological studies and we didn't quite have a stable income. I have heard lots of advice that say "first get a job then get married" or "Don't get married to a man without a job". First and foremost a job isn't the most important factor before marriage. Purpose is. It is also very important what God is saying to you as a couple in that instance. My husband and I had heard God clearly and we knew that it was the very right time for our marriage. How would we manage? I know that's a huge question in your mind right now, it was a huge one for us also at that time. We however were choosing obedience. You see obedience to a God instruction leads to supernatural provision. Obedience attracts the supernatural. The thing is, securing a job doesn’t guarantee provisi...

JOURNEY TO HONEY;PART 2

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Our wedding  was such an important day because it was for the very first time, I kissed my husband infront of both our physical and spiritual parents and our friends, that kiss was and still remains special. It was the best feeling I ever had. Not just kissing but fulfilling a goal that honored and glorified God in my body.  Before I go on and on about our wedding let me retrace steps a bit here. There are these things I want to share with you concerning our journey...  Our courtship. On the eve of accepting to court my now husband, he took me out for dinner. This was not for a celebration but he wanted to set values and principles that would guide our relationship. He was already doing what I desired a man should do. Take charge and set the precedence. Vision has to have parameters within which it will happen. Its usually the leader's initiative to make set the guiding principles for any vision they have.  Let me mention that by the time he asked to take...

JOURNEY TO HONEY;PART 1

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I am glad that you choose to check out  this section of my blog. This is where we talk and interact about singlehood, relationships and marriage. I have purposed to share our journey and lessons that God has been teaching us in marriage, because marriage is indeed a journey and we want to open up ours a bit in a way that would be helpful to you. Well Benjamin and I have been married for 2yrs,3mnths at the time of writing. It has been a journey of discovery, laughter, lifting each other up, learning and growth. Few mistakes here and there but we are good.  Since I was a child I always had the desire to get married to a leader, someone who people would look up to, someone with self drive and a different outlook in life. Well I got married to one, Benjamin is an enigma, I just don't know where to start about him.  OUR MEETING As a young 22 year old girl I was in a place where I finally passinately decided to fully pursue purpose like never before. I choose to tak...